Pilihanraya PERUBATAN (informal)

assalamualaikum
semuahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhg

alamak, tertekan, bukan marah, malas delete..biarkan je

esok 30 Disember 2011..jom undi untuk calon PERUBATAN PUSAT pula..tak kenal mereka? tanya je senior-senior yang mana berkaliber, @ tanya je pendapat sahabat-sahabat mereka kalau kenal..hehe

seriously, hati rasa sunyi jugak, sebab takley promote calon favourite..hehe
tapi bagus juga tak pening untuk memilih..ahhhaaa..either one larhh

em..semua orang tahu Fatma hebat, berkaliber, sistematik..semua orang tahu k.najwa sangat baik, lemah-lembut dan bagi saya dia seorang kakak yang baik (eh,ni bukan promo, kan da habis ngundi tadi..hehe)

sekarang 2.37 pagi,,dah lama saya tak baca berita..huhu..sebab lap top baru format balik, so, browser pun baru, bookmarks sumer hilang :(

kenapa saya da install kapersky (yang ni beli punyer), tapi still virus boleh menyerang? HIV kaa?
dulu, download yang free je..yang kapersky trial for 1 month ke,, then habis 1 month, download yang lain pula sprt AVG free trial..then bila semua antivirus da didownload, ade yg 3 monthes, so terkapai2 jugalah nak cari yang baru..norton sume..hoho..ape2 la..itu tahun 2..tahun tak busy n honeymoon sket :P,so lama-lama depan laptop pun takpe..sekarang da guna avira,alhamdulillah, setakat ni masih okey~ :)

tajuk macam formal ...tapi..hewhew

ini blog biasa-biasa..*peringatan*

bila da habis satu tugasan, saya akan muhasabah diri sendiri..
dan sekarang ni, tengah tulis kat buku, tapi idea tak keluar2..mungkin kena tidur dulu dan tulis planning?muhasabah pagi esok..

esok, nak masak untuk AJK ingatnye camtu la..hewhew...
7-9pagi usrah
10pagi ke pasar/beli ayam mungkin? masak2..bungkus
12pm masa ni solat Jumaat, akan kemaskan dewan untuk hari PENGUNDIAN PUSAT...esok..

sapa2 yang baca blog ni wajib pergi undi esok
-JPC target orang keluar undi: 70% utk pusat, alhamdulillah da ramai yang daftar..yess!, selaku Timb Pengarah/AJK Pelaksana saya anggap itu satu keberjayaan dan boleh senyum sampai bawa ke mimpi...

ye,,saya promote minta ahli turun mengundi, tetapi sedarkah anda ITU ADALAH SATU TANGGUNGJAWAB DAN AMANAH anda?
MEREKA YANG BERTANDING ni lah yang akan menyuarakan pendapat anda kelak kepada orang atasan dan yang akan menunaikan keperluan anda SEPANJANG SATU SESI..

PERASANKAH ANDA? WALAUPUN ANDA MENGATAKAN ini politik, mahasiswa mana boleh main politik"
 Politik tu maksud dia apa sebenarnya? ingat lagi, darjah 5, guru kelas cakap, sapa sokong *** jadi penolong ketua kelas, then ade yang angkat tgn dan ade yang tidak..(budak darjah 5 pun da buat pilihanraya tau, malahan dari darjah 1 pun,,uish2, memang kita dah diasah dengan politik dan kepimpinan rupa-rupanya...)

KALAU kita minat belajar dan mungkin minat kita kearah keilmuan (maksudnya disini memang tidak berminat langsung untuk turun mengundi/mencalon, memang tak nak terlibat langsung, nak study je,tak nak fikir pasal benda lain, masyarakat sekeliling@isu persekitaran), tidak perlu mematikan semangat sahabat-sahabat kita yang lain yang berkobar-kobar mempromosikan calon-calon mereka..biarkan..itu memang MINAT mereka, mungkin suatu hari nanti mereka INILAH yang akan memimpin MALAYSIA kelak..well, kita baru 20 years old, 20 years in future, who knows...dan masa tu, (contohnya) kita tengah nak minta biasiswa untuk anak kita, tengok2 sahabat2 kita yang jadi Timb. Menteri Pelajaran ke (yss? who knows kan?)..everything is POSSIBLE (cuma bolehlah ingatkan sahabat2 yang terlalu politicssss sampai lupa nak belajar..)

uih, i am sorry, better off to bed now
sebenarnya nak jot down a little, but when typing, my mind was searching wordS and arrangeD them into that..yes..that..UP THERE..HEHE..

exam : 24 Jan
every Thursday ade quiz..
tadi patient I da collapse kot..sbb diagnose salah (eh, patient dlm kertas)
aduyaiii :(

Kuasa kata-kata itu MEMANG akan merubah sesuatu..

ni pic THE VEILS~
masa FIESTA haritu, kitorang buat satu kumpulan nasyid, alhamdulillah menang :)
kitorang nak bersuka ria je sebenarnya, malam pun gi berlatih..kadang2 Encik Pengarah call time2 ni..huhu
dan yang paling bestnya, ukhuwah bertambah erat....

full of memories..

ni masa gi outing kat Avanti Restaurant, Mahattoh, Zagazig, Egypt..

baca berita sikit:

The most widespread medical implant failure in decades — involving thousands of all-metal artificial hips that need to be replaced prematurely — has entered the money phase.
Medical and legal experts estimate the hip failures may cost taxpayers, insurers, employers and others billions of dollars in coming years, contributing to the soaring cost of health care. The financial fallout is expected to be unusually large and complex because the episode involves a class of products, not a single device or just one company.

The case of Thomas Dougherty represents one particularly costly example. He spent five months this year without a left hip, largely stuck on a recliner watching his medical bills soar.
In August, Mr. Dougherty underwent an operation to replace a failed artificial hip, but his pelvis fractured soon afterward. The replacement hip was abandoned and then a serious infection set in. Some of the bills: $400,776 in charges related to hospitalizations, and $28,081 in doctors’ bills.
CONTINUE READING 

kesian kan? now..where is Barrack Obama?? eh...eh..politik la..sori sori :P

invalid newspaper~

i wanna GO, tq ppls :B

Pic ni senang je.sori.bukan I edit. tapi, dia akan buat sendiri untuk u olls..klu u olls nak la..name, gender, pic je..then u can printscreen the video..eh video..yes..VIDEO..macam inspiration giteww..hehehe (ketawa macam mak jenin sekarang)
ok2 ookk, ni link nye ye..selamat buat VIDEO :) DhoobItoHsaraDoccooL~

ok..selamat malam semua
minta maaf kalau ada menyentuh sensitiviti mana-mana pihak..
semua orang boleh berubah dan semua orang ada pendapat masing-masing..dan ini adalah pendapat saya yang disuarakan dalam bentuk tulisan..kalau nak suara yang betul, jom datang MTC, insyaallah saya akan usulkan satu usul yang berbunyi..."..................(sori, takde suara, tak minum air lagi.. ok..salam
BLOG RASMI MTC (MESYUARAT TAHUNAN CAWANGAN)

WaTchhiiinGVideoss$Sss

assalamualaikum :)
pekabo semuo ye? hehe..

jom dengar lagu ni..

baru-baru ini, ada seorang penyanyi baru, najwalatif, masih bersekolah dan macam yuna juga, menyanyi kat youtube...najwalatif nyanyi lagu cinta muka buku, then video ni adalah respon kepada lagu najwa tersebut

banyak pula skgni video cover yang di upload kat you tube..

fenomena ustaz di internet pun tidak kurang hebatnya..ustaz azhar dan ustaz kazim ..

ada pula vlogger yang mengajak remaja khususnya berfikir tentang isu disekelilingnya..cth: matluthfi, aiman azlan



semalam, lepas balik Hari Pengenalan Calon JPC, dengar bunyi yang kuat jugaklah..
ingatkan handset saya yang berbunyi@muzik dari bilik saya..
rupa-rupanya cik Ainnur tengah tengok satu music video..lagu Jawa..



susah beno liriknye. cam korea dah...
ni respon kpd suJU..hehe

saya: ainnur fahamke lagu ni? (memandangkan dia ade darah jawa..hehe)
ainnur: faham metu metu je..entah..dalam sangat bahasa Jawa dia..lagipun bahasa Jawa Melayu lain dari bahasa Jawa Indonesia
saya: oh,,ok

ooh pintar ngaji-ngaji, jangan judi-judi

tapi kan yang bestnye sekarang, kalau ada video yang bertentangan dengan syariat Islam la terutamanya, mesti ada yang buat video yang balas balik..i loike it :))
(mcm industri perfileman kat Iran da sket2)

layan....dan ambil pelajaran (:





nitez..salam
Murnikan Perjuagan, Maknakan Kemenangan
allahuakbar~

Spot Constellation

Predict the future? Phenomena such as Moore's Law, (computers double performance at the same price every 18 months) allow accurate predictions based upon technology as far as 10 years into the future 

Imagining the far future helps you discover near term opportunities that you wouldn't have otherwise thought of. Relaxing assumptions about what is possible lets you stumble upon "impossible" opportunities that are, in fact, very possible 

Identifying big wins in much harder than finding quick wins- INCORRECT because It takes no more effort to surface big, game changing opportunities than to identify small, near term wins. All that's needed to spot big wins is to use simple tools such as "Blind spot" analysis—which uncover big opportunities hiding in plain sight— in the course of your normal way of doing business. 

The best way to build a big future, is to "fail fast" with many small, quick experiments. World Class innovators such as Wal-Mart and Proctor and Gamble do this to manage constant change in their businesses and uncertainty about future consumer needs.  

The biggest obstacles to progress are often factors beyond our control, such as limited budgets, bureaucratic inertia and turf wars.INCORRECT.-Our own unconscious beliefs, perceptions and attitudes (such as learned helplessness) and aversion to "inconvenient truths" are the biggest obstacles to change. 

The most successful products—such as iPhone— are inspired by innovators who follow their passions, not designers who follow consumer fashion. Henry Ford said "If I'd asked people what they wanted they would have said a faster horse."  

Sitting on a big idea—as opposed to acting on it immediately—can be the best way to insure the idea bears fruit.Big ideas are usually so disruptive that they are only accepted during crises. Waiting to pitch a radical idea until the right crisis comes along is often the best way to keep the idea from dying an early death. 

The best way to predict the future is to invent it.The future is not cast in concrete, but is moldable. Apple, for example, decides what they want the future to be, then works hard to make that future real.

Basic human nature— such as people's resistance to change --is the biggest single obstacle to progress. INCORRECT because Major advances only occur when visionaries harness, vs. fight, human nature. For example, Jean Monnet slowly built the European Union by by cleverly appealing to tribal instincts of Europeans, persuading them to focus their "us vs. them" attitudes on non-Europeans instead of on intra European rivalries 

Appealing to people's emotions is more effective at selling your vision of the future than appealing to people's logicINCORRECT because People make decisions on emotion, not logic. Passionate arguments, especially those bolstered by rich visual and audio presentations, can move even conservative audiences to action 


SOURCE: longfusebigbang (I answered the quiz..hehe)


trivia-nowadays, whether i'm busy or not, i keep thinking about rhinocerous..WHy eh? Hard to say, but really exhausted. almost every night I attend society meeting..in Zagazig now: society election. The chairman already got his "chair" without competition. Congratz Doctor Hakim. May Allah always help you :)


ELECTION OFFICIAL MEDIA (JPC)

GOOD BLOG TO VISIT

After 9 years of war,..widows issue

BAGHDAD — Noria Khalaf giggled and then, embarrassed, covered her smile with a fold of her black robes. Yes, she said, she would like to marry again. It had been four years since her husband died, and her children needed a father.

Finding a good man in Baghdad these days is a challenge. Not only is nearly every trailer in this dusty government-run camp on the capital’s outskirts occupied by war widows like her, with nary a man in sight, but across Iraq women now outnumber men.

Some widows ask their brothers to bring friends by the camp, one of two packed trailer camps for widows in Baghdad. But that is not often successful.

The problem is that widows do not make appealing brides, say the women themselves and nongovernmental organizations that assist them.

“Maybe a young woman with only one or two kids can marry again,” Ms. Khalaf said with a sigh; she has six children.

Widows are not a new social problem in Iraq, of course. The war with Iran in the 1980s left tens of thousands of women widowed. Each new calamity that followed created more: the 1991 war with the United States, the failed Shiite uprising that followed, the repressions against Kurds.

And the numbers of widows in Iraq, or as American aid programs prefer to call them, “female heads of households,” increased substantially after the invasion in 2003 and in the years of violence that followed.

The Iraqi Ministry of Planning estimates that about 9 percent of the country’s women, or about 900,000, are widows. A separate government agency, the Ministry of Women, issued a statement in June putting the figure at one million.

Other groups also have estimated the number of women widowed during the nearly nine-year war, which is drawing to an official close with the last American soldiers scheduled to leave in December.

A United Nations report estimated that at the peak of the sectarian violence in 2006, nearly 100 women were widowed each day. The Ministry of Social Affairs pays widow’s benefits to 86,000 women, most of whom, it says, lost their husbands in the latest war.

This figure corresponds with conservative estimates of 103,000 to 113,000 Iraqi deaths in the war, according to a nonprofit group that tallies casualties, Iraq Body Count. The count includes the estimated 10,000 Iraqi soldiers who died in the initial American-led invasion and 10,125 police officers and soldiers who died afterward in fighting with insurgents, along with those killed in sectarian violence.

In possibly one of the last such episodes of the war, last weekend, the Iraqi police said American troops shot and killed two civilians after a roadside bomb exploded near a convoy. The American military denied that soldiers had fired on civilians.

Confronted with so many widows, the Iraqi government is providing only minimal assistance, equivalent to about $80 a month to those widowed in the recent conflict.

“We expected we would get a lot of help from all sides, the Americans, the Iraqi government,” Ms. Khalaf, who lost her husband in 2007, said in an interview in her trailer. “But the fact is, nobody really cares about us.”

The rusting trailer camp, across from a car lot, represents a social challenge that is not easily remedied — not least because the gender imbalance makes it exceedingly unlikely most widows will remarry.

Some American-financed projects have sought to help widows become self-sufficient economically, with some success, according to program reports. A United States Agency for International Development program offers small grants to female heads of households, for example. They can use the money to open small businesses like beauty salons or catering services. Program administrators say many recipients not only have improved their lives materially, but have overcome depression.

The program noted ailments among widows, some of whom had witnessed the killings of their husbands, like difficulty concentrating, numbness and heart palpitations. But after the widows started a small business, the program administrators said, they noticed signs of improvement — “more colorful clothing, smiley faces and for some, louder voices as they speak.”

At the trailer camp, American soldiers used to drive by occasionally in their Humvees, to throw candy and soccer balls to the children, a meager help.

At times, war widows became symbols for opponents of the American military presence in Iraq. When an Iraqi journalist threw his shoes at President George W. Bush in 2008, he shouted that he was doing so on behalf of the war’s widows and orphans. Politicians have recruited widows to appear at political rallies. But a half a dozen widows interviewed at the trailer camp said, most of all, they would like to remarry, however unlikely.

In the meantime, Raja Hashim, 32, said she would focus on her children, all sons. “I don’t need a man because I have three men already,” she said.

Yasir Ghazi contributed reporting.

trivia: adakah anda masih berselera lagi nak makan KFC & nak pakai Levi's ? erkk..:P
throw candy??? give my family backkkkkkkk! hinanya rasa..candy je? soccer ball?? melampaunya...
notes for my istiqamah readers ;) NOTES 

my Naqibah studyTable-10 Ideal Muslims

i had class today 9am till 4.20pm..back home then prepard myself to naqibah & nuqaba' meeting. This monthly meeting finished at 10.40pm (start at about 5.30 +- pm)
yeah, it is sacrifice. Tadhiyah. To build a new person, a quality one is not easy. It needs energy, time, money, and the most crucial thing is thinking.. Way of thinking..

Have u ever heard 'fardhu muslim'?

Tell u, the contents are just like 10 characteristics of ideal muslims=muwasafat tarbiyah

yes, we talked about this many times, but hidayah from Allah is somewhat delayed..many factors in causing delayed..oh i'm talking complicated (this is someone told me, i'm thinking complicated, cannot understand me..haha..ok2..very simple like ABC now..
just talk about our topics,, fardhul muslim..

here, writing in malay..

aqidah yang sejahtera: mempunyai aqidah yang teguh, sentiasa baca buku agama, tingkatkan ilmu agama

ibadah yang betul: mempunyai ilmu dalam ibadah yang dilakukan, melaksanakan ibadah yang wajib dengan sempurna, sentiasa istiqamah dalam melaksanakan ibadah sunat, istiqamah (berterusan) dalam solat berjemaah, qiamullail, baca al-quran, hadis, puasa sunat

akhalak yang mulia: peribadi yang benar, amanah, menepati janji, berani, tegas denan kebenaran, sabar, dll

kuat tubuh badan: menjaga kesihatan diri, pemakanan, amal cara hidup sihat, melazimi bersenam dan sukan

menjaga waktu: berdisplin tinggi, sentiasa tepati waktu, menyusun jadual harian, mingguan, bulanan, hindari dari buang masa, jaga waktu solat

mampu berdikari: menunaikan tanggungjawab dengan penuh kesungguhan, mengurus diri dan tugas dengan baik, mampu urus kewangan

bermanfaat kepada orang lain: menyediakan diri untuk membantu orang lain, mengeali sahabat2 lain, ringan tulang dan sentiasa membantu dalam kerja kemasyarakatan

berpengetahuan tinggi: pengetahuan agama yang baik, pakar dalam bidangpengkhususan masing-masin, ilmutentang gerakan Islam dan siasah, pengetahuan tentang isu semasa terutamanya yang berkaitan dengan muslimin

melawan hawa nafsu: menyusun gerak kerja harian, memerhati etiap perbuatan, menilai perbuatan/ tingkah laku/gerak kerja yang telah dilaksanakan, memberi hukuman terhadap kesalahan dan kesilapan yang dilakukan...

em ngantuknyee....ape lagi ye..emm

oh, yg last sekali: tersusun dalam urusan: menyusun setiap tanggungjawab dan kewajipan, memahami dan susun kerja mengikut keutamaan, penting dan segera, segera tapi tak penting, penting tapi tak segera...dll, tidak berlebihan dalam suatu kerja sehingga mengabaikan kewajipan yang lain, tidak bertangguh..

modul untuk bulan November untuk naqibah n nuqaba' bentang dah pun ada di tangan..alhamdulillah, bertambah mantap..insyaallah, doa moga usrah pun lebih mantap, dari segi kualiti dan kuantitinya..takut juga bila kita sampaikan sesuatu, ahli usrah tak faham dan terus lari meninggalkan usrah..sayang seribu kali sayang...hanya kerana langkah dakwah yang sedikit tersilap, besar impaknya kepada orang lain....

seminar perubatan dan ibadah pesakit: pembedahan di Iskandariah(Alex), Mesir 5 dan 6 nov. 6 tu da raya haji..

teringat ketika dulu, di Maahad muhammadi, saya memegang usrah ketika tingkatan tiga..umur yang saya kira sangat muda dan banyak yang perlu dipelajari..sehari demi sehari...tapi di Maahad saya tidaklah menonjol sangat pun..biasa2 je..cuma mungkin nampak baik sikit, jadi naqibah sehinggalah tingakatan 5....dan bila di tahun 2 di universiti sekali lagi dilantik jadi naqibah..saya buta...

ye, buta, tak tahu usrah saya nak menuju ke mana...di maahad, kebanyakan ahli usrah sudah tahu apa itu usrah..tapi di alam universiti, ramai yang tidak tahu..perkara yang dulu-dulu terpaksa diulangi....dan saya buta dengan cara...cara untuk bawa usrah.buntu..

bila belajar medik, selalu kena treat the cause, treat the cause..then treat the cause lagi..
saya cuba kaitkan dengan medik-usrah..
bila ada tumor,  take biopsy and do investigation...
when necrosis and gangrene, what to do??

when the patient hypoglycemic coma, then what he or she may suffer? sign and symptoms??

.ye, saya tahu, saya mesti sentiasa ada pembaharuan...buku/cara/online saya baca..insyaallah, saya masih belajar hingga sekarang....tak senang untuk dakwah, tak senang untuk menyeru ke arah kebaikan.....dan saya sendiri ditarbiyah dan mentarbiyah...

alhamdulillah, mungkin dulu saya tidak nampak..sekarang skop itu lebih luas, disamping ambil pengalaman orang terdahulu...

jadi karangan...ehehei..lupa nak bagitahu, saya exam hari ni yeayy! :P

ok la...esok kelas..kawan yang posting lain da masuk operation thatre da..saya forensic, masuk muzium je, alaa, yg banyak jar tu...hehe..ok ;)

surat dari unit akademik PCZ. moga meningkat lagi tahun depan.amin2

di muzium forensik,

pagi raya di Iskandariah (raya haji kat alex tahun ni) ;) comey sungguh langit tuhey buak..subhanallah

'perkakas' seminar

mahal sewa dewan ni..better not to know la u all..mahal ngatt..(seminar, Alex)

trivia~ ve   ry      go    od n  i g h t;) bc 3 kul sebelum tdo..salam :)

The Story of the Boy and the King (from Surah Burooj)-Imâm Ibn Kathîr

lihasiinah bass! ;)

assalamualaikum readers. Story that people always talk about it. It is present in video too. You can search it on youtube

happy friday ;)

The Story of the Boy and the King (from Surah Burooj)
by Imâm Ibn Kathîr

Top of Form Imam Ahmad recorded from Suhayb that the Messenger of Allah said: Among the people who came before you, there was a king who had a sorcerer, and when that sorcerer became old, he said to the king, "I have become old and my time is nearly over, so please send me a boy whom I can teach magic.'' So, he sent him a boy and the sorcerer taught him magic. Whenever the boy went to the sorcerer, he sat with a monk who was on the way and listened to his speech and admired them. So, when he went to the sorcerer, he passed by the monk and sat there with him; and on visiting the sorcerer the latter would thrash him. So, the boy complained about this to the monk. The monk said to him, "Whenever you are afraid of the sorcerer, say to him: `My people kept me busy.' And whenever you are afraid of your people, say to them: `The sorcerer kept me busy.''' So the boy carried on like that (for some time). Then a huge terrible creature appeared on the road and the people were unable to pass by. The boy said, "Today I shall know whether the sorcerer is better or the monk is better.'' So, he took a stone and said, "O Allah! If the deeds and actions of the monk are liked by You better than those of the sorcerer, then kill this creature so that the people can cross (the road).''Then he struck it with a stone killing it and the people passed by on the road. The boy came to the monk and informed him about it. The monk said to him, "O my son! Today you are better than I, and you have achieved what I see! You will be put to trial. And in case you are put to trial, do not inform (them) about me.''The boy used to treat the people suffering from congenital blindness, leprosy, and other diseases. There was a courtier of the king who had become blind and he heard about the boy. He came and brought a number of gifts for the boy and said, "All these gifts are for you on the condition that you cure me.'' The boy said, "I do not cure anybody; it is only Allah who cures people. So, if you believe in Allah and supplicate to Him, He will cure you.'' So, he believed in and supplicated to Allah, and Allah cured him. Later, the courtier came to the king and sat at the place where he used to sit before. The king said, "Who gave you back your sight''The courtier replied, "My Lord.'' The king then said, "I did'' The courtier said, "No, my Lord and your Lord - Allah'' The king said, "Do you have another Lord beside me'' The courtier said, "Yes, your Lord and my Lord is Allah.'' The king tortured him and did not stop until he told him about the boy. So, the boy was brought to the king and he said to him,"O boy! Has your magic reached to the extent that you cure congenital blindness, leprosy and other diseases''He said, " I do not cure anyone. Only Allah can cure.'' The king said, "Me'' The boy replied, "No.'' The king asked, "Do you have another Lord besides me''The boy answered, " My Lord and your Lord is Allah.'' So, he tortured him also until he told about the monk. Then the monk was brought to him and the king said to him, "Abandon your religion.'' The monk refused and so the king ordered a saw to be brought which was placed in the middle of his head and he fell, sawn in two. Then it was said to the man who used to be blind, "Abandon your religion.'' He refused to do so, and so a saw was brought and placed in the middle of his head and he fell, sawn in two. Then the boy was brought and it was said to him, "Abandon your religion.'' He refused and so the king sent him to the top of such and such mountain with some people. He told the people, "Ascend up the mountain with him till you reach its peak, then see if he abandons his religion; otherwise throw him from the top.'' They took him and when they ascended to the top, he said, " O Allah! Save me from them by any means that You wish.'' So, the mountain shook and they all fell down and the boy came back walking to the king. The king said, "What did your companions (the people I sent with you) do'' The boy said, "Allah saved me from them.'' So, the king ordered some people to take the boy on a boat to the middle of the sea, saying, "If he renounces his religion (well and good), but if he refuses, drown him.'' So, they took him out to sea and he said, "O Allah! Save me from them by any means that you wish.'' So they were all drowned in the sea. Then the boy returned to the king and the king said, "What did your companions do'' The boy replied, "Allah, saved me from them.'' Then he said to the king, "You will not be able to kill me until you do as I order you. And if you do as I order you, you will be able to kill me.'' The king asked, "And what is that'' The boy said, "Gather the people in one elevated place and tie me to the trunk of a tree; then take an arrow from my quiver and say: `In the Name of Allah, the Lord of the boy.' If you do this, you will be able to kill me.'' So he did this, and placing an arrow in the bow, he shot it, saying, "In the Name of Allah, the Lord of the boy.'' The arrow hit the boy in the temple, and the boy placed his hand over the arrow wound and died. The people proclaimed, "We believe in the Lord of the boy!'’ Then it was said to the king, "Do you see what has happened That which you feared has taken place. By Allah, all the people have believed (in the Lord of the boy).''So he ordered that ditches be dug at the entrances to the roads and it was done, and fires were kindled in them. Then the king said, "Whoever abandons his religion, let him go, and whoever does not, throw him into the fire.'' They were struggling and scuffling in the fire, until a woman and her baby whom she was breast feeding came and it was as if she was being somewhat hesitant of falling into the fire, so her baby said to her,"Be patient mother! For verily, you are following the truth!'') Muslim also recorded this Hadith at the end of the Sahih. Muhammad bin Ishaq bin Yasar related this story in his book of Sirah in another way that has some differences from that which has just been related. Then, after Ibn Ishaq explained that the people of Najran began following the religion of the boy after his murder, which was the religion of Christianity, he said, "Then (the king) Dhu Nuwas came to them with his army and called them to Judaism. He gave them a choice to either accept Judaism or be killed, so they chose death. Thus, he had a ditch dug and burned (some of them) in the fire (in the ditch), while others he killed with the sword. He made an example of them (by slaughtering them) until he had killed almost twenty thousand of them. It was about Dhu Nuwas and his army that Allah revealed to His Messenger : (Cursed were the People of the Ditch. Of fire fed with fuel. When they sat by it. And they witnessed what they were doing against the believers. And they had no fault except that they believed in Allah, the Almighty, Worthy of all praise! To Whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth! And Allah is Witness over everything.) (85:4-9) This is what Muhammad bin Ishaq said in his book of Sirah -- that the one who killed the People of the Ditch was Dhu Nuwas, and his name was Zur`ah. In the time of his kingdom he was called Yusuf. He was the son of Tuban As`ad Abi Karib, who was the Tubba` who invaded Al-Madinah and put the covering over the Ka`bah. He kept two rabbis with him from the Jews of Al-Madinah. After this some of the people of Yemen accepted Judaism at the hands of these two rabbis, as Ibn Ishaq mentions at length. So Dhu Nuwas killed twenty thousand people in one morning in the Ditch. Only one man among them escaped. He was known as Daws Dhu Tha`laban. He escaped on a horse and they set out after him, but they were unable to catch him. He went to Caesar, the emperor of Ash-Sham. So, Caesar wrote to An-Najashi, the King of Abyssinia. So, he sent with him an army of Abyssinian Christians, who were lead by Aryat and Abrahah. They rescued Yemen from the hands of the Jews. Dhu Nuwas tried to flee but eventually fell into the sea and drowned. After this, the kingdom of Abyssinia remained under Christian power for seventy years. Then the power was divested from the Christians by Sayf bin Dhi Yazin Al-Himyari when Kisra, the king of Persia sent an army there (to Yemen). He (the king) sent with him (Sayf Al-Himyari) those people who were in the prisons, and they were close to seven hundred in number. So, he (Sayf Al-Himyari) conquered Yemen with them and returned the kingdom back to the people of Himyar (Yemenis). Bottom of Form

source: abdurrahman

Just to Defend Myself

I not hate all Egyptian men..but certain Egyptian men
why? because I got headache when I dealt with some of them
and now, I threw out my anger
just to say that, i was capable to face him, to scold him
don't think the ladies have no power and also we are Malaysian
we smaller than you, and we afraid of you...huhu..you wrong
very wrong
we are also human being, we have our fundamental rights like European, Caucasian, American....
why treat us like we are strangers to you?
we are also muslims

two years more here...sabar sabar...

why you are so stubborn? I really regret what you have done to me..
it is not cheap
it is meant to me
really....

barang saya hilang, mudah-mudahan akan jumpa balik..amin ya rabb

trivia~ memang betul orang kata, kalau bekerja dengan sorang orang arab, rasa macam bekerja dengan sepuluh orang Melayu..

Cinta Tak Masuk Akal

Seorang ayah pergi merantau ke luar negara untuk mencari rezeki meninggalkan seorang isteri dan tiga orang anak. Dia seorang yang penyayang dan sangat dikasihi dan dihormati pula oleh ahli keluarganya.

Setelah keadaannya di rantau orang agak stabil, dia menghantar surat pertama kepada keluarganya. Mereka sangat gembira menerima surat yang sungguh bermakna dari seorang ayah yang sangat dikasihi dan disayangi. Sampul surat itu ditenung berulang kali. Masing-masing memeluk dan mengucup surat tersebut bagai tidak mahu dilepaskan. Kemudian surat yang berharga itu disimpan di dalam pembalut sutera yang indah. Sekali sekala surat itu dikeluarkan dari pembalutnya untuk dibersihkan daripada debu dan habuk. Kemudian meletakkan kembali di dalam pembalutnya.

Kemudian tiba pula surat kedua, ketiga dan seterusnya. Semuanya disimpan dan dijaga rapi seperti surat pertama.

Beberapa tahun berlalu…

Tibalah masa untuk si ayah pulang menemui keluarga tercinta. Alangkah terkejutnya dia apabila mendapati tiada seorangpun yang tinggal kecuali anak bongsunya. Dengan cemas dia bertanya:

- Mana ibumu?

- Ibu ditimpa sakit yang amat teruk. Kami tidak ada wang untuk membiayai rawatannya sehingga akhirnya dia meninggal dunia.
- Kenapa begitu? Apakah kamu tidak membuka suratku yang pertama? Di dalamnya terkandung sejumlah wang yang banyak untuk perbelanjaan kamu?

- Tidak!

- Di mana pula abangmu?

- Dia telah terpengaruh dengan kawan-kawan sebaya yang jahat. Selepas kematian ibu, tidak ada siapa yang mampu menasihatinya. Sekarang dia sudah jadi sebahagian daripada mereka.

- (Ayah semakin hairan) Kenapa begitu? Aku telah tulis dengan panjang lebar menasihati kamu agar berhati-hati memilih kawan. Jangan berkawan dengan orang jahat kerana lama kelamaan kita juga akan jadi jahat! Aku juga meminta agar abangmu itu mengikut aku di rantau orang. Apakah kamu tidak membaca suratku?

- Tidak!

- لا حول ولا قوة إلا بالله

- Kakakmu di mana?

- Dia pernah tulis surat kepada ayah meminta nasihat tentang seorang pemuda yang melamarnya. Sekarang dia telah berkawin dengan pemuda itu. Tapi malangnya dia tidak bahagia. Hidupnya menderita didera sepanjang masa lahir dan batin.

- Bukankah aku telah jawab surat itu menasihatinya agar jangan terima lamaran pemuda itu? Aku telah ingatkan, jangan pillih pasangan berdasarkan harta dan kedudukan. Tapi pilihlah berdasarkan agama, akhlak dan keturunan! Kamu tidak baca semua surat-suratku?

- Tidak! Kami simpan surat-surat ayah di dalam pembalut sutera yang cantik, kami usap dan cium surat itu sebagai tanda sayang dan rindu kami kepada ayah! Tetapi kami tidak membacanya…

Tidak ada siapa yang percaya akan kebenaran cerita ini. Mungkin ada yang akan berkata ia tidak masuk akal sama sekali!

Namun sedarkah kita bahawa inilah kisah benar. Kisah yang tak masuk akal inilah yang berlaku dalam kehidupan umat Islam hari ini?

Kita menerima SURAT dari Yang Maha Mengetahui, Maha Pengasih, Maha Penyayang, Maha Memerhati lagi Maha Bijaksana. SURAT yang mengandungi panduan, ajaran serta petunjuk dalam segenap bidang kehidupan. Tetapi sejauh mana kita membaca, memahami dan mengikuti panduan yang diberi?

Maka jadilah apa yang terjadi! Umat Islam mati dibunuh saban hari, di sana sini. Jenayah meningkat, keruntuhan akhlak mencemaskan di semua peringkat, wanita-wanita didera dan diperkosa tanpa mengira tua atau muda, bayi-bayi yang tidak berdosa dibuang merata-rata, dan bermacam-macam kejahatan, maksiat dan kemungkaran yang menjijikkan.

Semuanya berpunca daripada tidak membaca dan mengambil pengajaran daripada SURAT yang dikirim oleh Pencipta Yang Maha Esa Yang Amat Sayang kepada makhluk-Nya!






"Demi MASA! Sesungguhnya manusia itu dalam kerugian, kecuali 
(1) orang-orang yang beriman, (2) dan yang beramal soleh 
(3) dan yang berpesan2 pada kebenaran (4) dan yang berpesan2 pada kesabaran". 
~Surah Al-'Asr.

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trivia~ Friday is the only my holiday...@_@ 

Through Rapists Eyes

It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many

people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a

situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world.

THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG...

FYI - Through a rapist's eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in

prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim

and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.

They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid

or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to

go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common

targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women

who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors

around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through

their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are

off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is

grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman

and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to

worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged

because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going

after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or

other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their

hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to

the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince

these guys you're not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or

with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask

them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:

can't believe it is so cold out here, we're in for a bad winter. Now

that you've seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up,

you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of

you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to

said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would

not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY

target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of

it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER

SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can

do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from

behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and

armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this

guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was

trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin

and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching

yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a

particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it

is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and

make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our

instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of

trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers

and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing

down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using

much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked

audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of

your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any

odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel

little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really

was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....

I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be

some, where you will go "hmm I must remember that" After reading,

forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in

this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your

body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks

for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from

you.... chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or

purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN

THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back

tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like

crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has

saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating,

working, etc., and just sit

(doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! The

predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for

him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell

you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or

parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be

hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the

passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE

RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you! u are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the

passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling

them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their

cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and

the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest

your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a

guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE

THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are

horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS

RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times;

And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may

get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a

good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies

of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often

asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when

he abducted his next victim.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a

life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going

to send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers,

wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as

well.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the

world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better safe than

sorry.

source: Inspire Your Living (FB)