Saturday 30 July 2011

Self Transformation Of A Leader

by: Ybhg Dato' Dr. Hj. Mohd fadzilah Kamsah


when i stepped into my dad's room, i found a workpaper . i'll type some for u readers coz i think it is beneficial ..


what do you seek?
God's blessing
success
happiness-physical,emotional,spiritual
recog-God,human being,your beloved ones,others      
satisfaction
opportunities
life destiny


identifying your 'X' factor
idea generator
implementor
defender
resource linker
negotiator
analyst
administrator
pray for others                       
forgiver
advisor
listener
follower
self presentation
balanced personality
spiritually sound
outstanding talent
motivator


profile of individual heading for trouble
disobey God
blissful in ignorance
refuse to change
always defensive
very rigid
no team spirit
numerous personal problems                             
fat n lazy
disrespect laws n regulations
refuse to go out of the box
disorganized
very stressful
burnt-out 
irresponsible
poor human relations
sloppy(selekeh)
inconsistent
disloyal
low sense of competition
easily contented
repeating the same mistake
always blaming others
self-sabotage
always take but don't give
moral decadence
absenteeism
no vision


17 fatalmistakes leaders make
refuse to take responsibility
fail to develop subordinates
control outcome and does not encourage thinking
making friends with wrong groups of people
manage every person with the same style
overlook the importance of profitability
focus on the problem and not the objective                     
become more like a friend than a leader
fail to determine standard
fail to train subordinates
allow trivialities to occur
give recognitiononly to excellent workers
manipulate others
fail to utilize ICT
fail to seek Divine guidance
refuse to forgive others
not pray for others


smart moves of excellent people                       


aim to be the best
focus on integrity
upheld vision n mission
innovative and creative
disciplined
continuous self-improvement                          
seek God's blessing-rezeki,ilmu,masa
positive
great team spirit
enthusiastic/cheerful
open-minded
n semua yg terbalik dari sikap2 negatif kt atas tadi.ok :)


The  Gold of Leadership
1.if it is lonely at the top,you're not doing something right
2.the toughest person to lead is always yourself
3.defining moments(crisis,critical decision,conflict)define your leadership
4.adding value in your life by helping others
5.manage life,not manage time
6.experience is not the best teacher
7.be a connector, not just a climber
8.an effective leader uses his influence, not his authority
9.not success without sacrifice
10.great leaders are those who are needed by others
keep learning to keep leading
biggest mistake is not asking what mistake you're making


tu je yg penting
ok.


dr fadzilah came to Bank Islam (my dad is working there) and give a talk on this. i think it is a interesting to know more. will discuss with my dad when he is free.
tadi gi makan chop n steak. my bro belanja. he do his practical in a company. he got his emolument.waa org makan gaji..best gak ek dpt gaji belanja family..kak siti n husband pun ada jugak tadi .(pekerja umi). kiranya abang belanja 9 orang. 7 makan chicken chop, ayah makan sizzling, mom makan fish n chip: rm99 include drinks..hehe..pokai abang..heehe^_*








trivia¬ today is the first day in malaysia.
i didn't know the airplane will transit in Bangkok. so,the way was cairo-amman-bangkok-KL
ssoo lamaaa la :(


i want to tell u many things.sangat..hehe..
ok.nite people.assalamualaikum

















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